apron string
Definition
Noun (usually used in the plural: apron strings) 1. A literal cord or string used to fasten an apron around a person's waist. 2. A metaphorical symbol of excessive control, dependence, or close attachment, typically referring to the influence of a mother or a parental figure over someone (often a man).
Usage
The term is almost exclusively used in its plural form, "apron strings." It is commonly found in the idiom "tied to (someone's) apron strings," which describes a person, especially an adult, who is excessively controlled by or dependent on another, usually their mother.
Examples
- Literal Meaning:
- She untied her apron strings after finishing the baking.
- Figurative/Idiomatic Meaning:
- He's a grown man but still seems tied to his mother's apron strings.
- She needed to cut the apron strings and live independently.
Advanced Usage
- "To be tied to (someone's) apron strings": To be under the excessive control or influence of someone, preventing independence.
- The CEO's son was promoted, but many felt he was still tied to his father's apron strings.
- "To cut the apron strings": To break free from someone's controlling influence and become independent.
- Moving to another city was her way of finally cutting the apron strings.
Variants and Related Words
- Apron-string tenure (Historical/Legal): A rare, archaic term referring to a type of property tenure controlled by a wife or mother.
- Apron-string hold: A less common variant describing a controlling influence.
Synonyms
- Control
- Dominance
- Dependence
- Influence
Related Idioms
- "Under (someone's) thumb": Similar to being controlled by someone.
- "Wrapped around (someone's) little finger": To be completely controlled by someone.
Noun
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(usually used in the plural) a cord used to tie an apron at the waist
